Thursday, January 5, 2012

Sometimes it's not about where you are headed or remembering where you came from... Sometimes it's about entrusting the journey you're on.

People always say that life changes, things changes, people change. I think the biggest change is the change that happens within ourselves. The leaves change every year, the weather changes every year- we can anticipate these changes, but we can never anticipate the change that happens to ourself.

Sometimes we find it hard to accept the changes that have occurred within ourselves becasue we do not want to admit that all the things that have been happening around us could be because of us. We do not want to take blame for what we have done wrong, but we are always willing to take credit for what we do right. People are wary to ask questions when they do not know the answer, but they find it easy to take the lead when they know the outcome. Did Jesus know the outcome? If he had known do you think he would have still continued? This is something we will never have the answer to. But at some point people need to start taking the lead and allowing themselves to be wrong and knowing that it is still ok. We are all so unsure of ourselves that it makes the rest of the world wonder about self-esteem and self-worth. I think these are some of the most important things in life because at the end of the day this is all you will have left.
Your parents will grow up and die, your children will grow up and leave your home, your spouse will either leave you or die as well, family is only as dependent as the next person, the only thing you know will never leave your side is yourself because that is who you are stuck with.

Realizing that you really have nothing and no one are some of the hardest feats. Being afraid will do nothing to change it.

Sometimes the things you always though you feared the most becomes the things you fear the least and the things you feared the least become the things you fear the most. When fear has come tapping on your shoulds there is usually only one thing to do- stand up to it and prove that you can defeat anything.

Change occurs every day, change happens without notice, changes happens, and once the change has been made- you can never get back what you wanted, memories are all you have left sometimes of yourself and those around you.

Keep moving forward, because there is nothing you can do to stop change, don't be afraid of it.

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